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by anthony55 » Sun Dec 25, 2011 4:30 am
To the OP:
I just wanted to say I understand how you feel, and I think you're making the right decision to drop out of law school and attend "pod school", if that is indeed something that you are passionate about. It takes bravery, IMO, to drop out of anything, especially a prestigious education.
If things had happened a bit differently for me, I may have been in the same boat as you. I initially planned on attending law school this year (September 2011), but due to personal reasons, chose to apply again this cycle for entry in the fall of 2012. Though I have been accepted to the "T14", my interest in the legal field has almost evaporated completely. TBH, a large part of the reason I had chosen to apply to law school was because 1) it is generally a respected and admired profession (despite the many jokes made about it), 2) I wanted to be able to get a job that would easily make 6-figures, and 3) I felt pressured being at a competitive undergrad institution where everyone was Type A and wanted to work on Wall Street or do something equally prestigious.
I'll probably get ridiculed for saying I wanted to attend law school for the above reasons, but it is the truth. I imagine some people who read this comment may be doing the same, though I'm sure many of you have a really strong passion for law.
But to me - and I know this may sound trite or corny - I think the most important thing to do in life is to follow what you're (most) passionate about. Your work is a major part of your life, and if you don't think you're headed in the direction of something you'll enjoy, you're going to have to wake up every day for the rest of your life and dread the majority of your day. Additionally, if it's a field such as law - which can be competitive, cutthroat, and time-consuming - you may not have a great deal of down time. Of course, this varies a lot, and of course, the pay tends to be good-to-great. And there are obviously lots and lots of people who love it, and have known they wanted to be a lawyer from a young age. But at the end of the day, I think it is better to enjoy work/life and make "X" salary than to feel like you're trudging through the mud everyday at a job you don't enjoy (or even a job you only feel neutral about) while making "2X" salary.
But obviously this varies by person. I realized pretty late in the game (e.g. after graduating from college and working for a little while) that I am not someone who wants a highly stressful office job in corporate America - especially one with the potential of being even somewhat greater than 40 hours/week. I realized that I am just someone who values free/leisure time with friends, family, and even myself. For years I had been suppressing what I knew was my passion - to be a high school English teacher - because of how poorly regarded the teaching profession is in the US and because of how poor their salary tends to be. But as I said, I realized that I'd rather be an English teacher, which I know is what I'm most passionate about due to my love for working with students, being creative, the discipline of English, helping others, etc. That, coupled with the fact that I live in the area of the country in which teachers make the highest income (obviously, I value money to an extent), I realized that it really is in my best interest to avoid law school and follow what I'm truly passionate about, rather than what may "look good" to outsiders. I'm the only who has to wake up everyday and live my life, so what other people think of me should be of little importance.
But I know a lot of people - many of my friends - who have admitted to doing what "looks good" because of various reasons (often familial/cultural ones), rather than something they'd genuinely prefer. So, I just wanted to commend the OP on making what I think is a brave and probably wise decision, and to anyone reading this who has doubts about law (or whatever field they have chosen to break into), I think the best thing to do is to follow what you are most passionate about and what can contribute most to your quality of life. Fancy cars and houses and material things are nice, but if those are the primary reasons for you following a certain career path, you should probably question yourself and your motives. Those aren't necessarily bad motivations, but if they are the primary or only ones, then it may indeed be a poor decision. At the end of the day, I think it's better to live in a "normal" sized house and make a "normal" amount of money but genuinely enjoy how you spend the bulk of your days and feel happier overall, than to merely "get by" at a job you lack passion for but which affords you the ability to live in opulence or grandeur or have disposable income.