I agree with this as a stub year. The assistant I was assigned just changed last week and I never asked the first one to do anything for me. I have yet to talk to my new assistant who's office is not close to mine. I will wait to give a gift until next year.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
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Just give them $100. You haven't done anything useful for anyone as a stub, and yet you make $180,000 and will probably get a pro-rated bonus.Anonymous User wrote:I agree with this as a stub year. The assistant I was assigned just changed last week and I never asked the first one to do anything for me. I have yet to talk to my new assistant who's office is not close to mine. I will wait to give a gift until next year.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
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Learn to use your secretary. And while I generally get the stub year issue, you net over 8k a month. You can spare $100 for your secretary.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
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Yea, possibly making your assistant hate you over $100 bucks seems incredibly short sighted.LaLiLuLeLo wrote:Learn to use your secretary. And while I generally get the stub year issue, you net over 8k a month. You can spare $100 for your secretary.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
At my firm, we do give gifts to paras, staff attorneys, janitorial ppl, and others.
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Out curiosity how do associates handle gift giving when it comes to secretarial pools?
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Why is everyone being so cheap in this thread? I'm a stub year too, I've asked my secretary for help on like 2 things in the last couple months. But I chat with her occasionally, make it a point to say hi in the mornings on my way in, learned what kind of wine she likes, and hope that a decent bottle of that wine and $100 with a nice card will turn her graces in my favor when I do need help with something important (like formatting a document when I have 5 other things to do and I completely f*** up the formatting cause windows 10 sucks). I had a situation like that happen as a summer associate, and my secretary saved my butt because she was appreciative that I wrote her a handwritten thank you card after 2 weeks of being a summer and asking her all my stupid questions.
We make close to $9,000 after taxes with virtually no skillset/value add. Buy your secretary a damn gift, be nice/friendly with them, and get karma on your side. Their work can be miserable at times, just like ours, but for significantly less money. Show them the appreciation even if you barely have a relationship with them, because you'll need it someday.
We make close to $9,000 after taxes with virtually no skillset/value add. Buy your secretary a damn gift, be nice/friendly with them, and get karma on your side. Their work can be miserable at times, just like ours, but for significantly less money. Show them the appreciation even if you barely have a relationship with them, because you'll need it someday.
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Also interested, I don't have a secretary but the floor has 3-4 secretaries that do work for the non-partnersAnonymous User wrote:Out curiosity how do associates handle gift giving when it comes to secretarial pools?
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Same, our floor shares secretaries. I've had multiple different people help me when I request tasks (usually just copying/scanning or doing my expense reports).tyrant_flycatcher wrote:Also interested, I don't have a secretary but the floor has 3-4 secretaries that do work for the non-partnersAnonymous User wrote:Out curiosity how do associates handle gift giving when it comes to secretarial pools?
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Sooo, exactly how are associates handling gift-giving to secretarial pools?
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Lots of odd use of Anon ITT.Anonymous User wrote:Sooo, exactly how are associates handling gift-giving to secretarial pools?
Why not just ask someone who was there last christmas what the norm is?
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This past weekend I joined the gift-card crowd with three $150 Visa gift cards to the office staff. Done.
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Are checks frowned upon?
Would think it's more presentable than cash and more flexible than giftcards
Would think it's more presentable than cash and more flexible than giftcards
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Honest question: what reasonable, well-adjusted person would bear ill-will after not getting a Christmas gift from someone they've known ~2 months?sublime wrote:Yea, possibly making your assistant hate you over $100 bucks seems incredibly short sighted.LaLiLuLeLo wrote:Learn to use your secretary. And while I generally get the stub year issue, you net over 8k a month. You can spare $100 for your secretary.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
At my firm, we do give gifts to paras, staff attorneys, janitorial ppl, and others.
First, we do not make $9K/month after taxes. Second, it's entirely possible to be nice/friendly without doling out cash for entirely self-serving reasons. Third, it's a job for both them and us and everyone is compensated for the work they do. The gift-schtick around here is so lame. Partners like cheaping out on support staff and create this culture of "gift ur secretary or else ur cheap lololol." Thanks for buying into the GC-schtick.PorscheFanatic wrote:We make close to $9,000 after taxes with virtually no skillset/value add. Buy your secretary a damn gift, be nice/friendly with them, and get karma on your side. Their work can be miserable at times, just like ours, but for significantly less money. Show them the appreciation even if you barely have a relationship with them, because you'll need it someday.
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Well someone’s defensive.
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I think you chose the right careerAnonymous User wrote:Honest question: what reasonable, well-adjusted person would bear ill-will after not getting a Christmas gift from someone they've known ~2 months?sublime wrote:Yea, possibly making your assistant hate you over $100 bucks seems incredibly short sighted.LaLiLuLeLo wrote:Learn to use your secretary. And while I generally get the stub year issue, you net over 8k a month. You can spare $100 for your secretary.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
At my firm, we do give gifts to paras, staff attorneys, janitorial ppl, and others.
First, we do not make $9K/month after taxes. Second, it's entirely possible to be nice/friendly without doling out cash for entirely self-serving reasons. Third, it's a job for both them and us and everyone is compensated for the work they do. The gift-schtick around here is so lame. Partners like cheaping out on support staff and create this culture of "gift ur secretary or else ur cheap lololol." Thanks for buying into the GC-schtick.PorscheFanatic wrote:We make close to $9,000 after taxes with virtually no skillset/value add. Buy your secretary a damn gift, be nice/friendly with them, and get karma on your side. Their work can be miserable at times, just like ours, but for significantly less money. Show them the appreciation even if you barely have a relationship with them, because you'll need it someday.
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You are also getting a several thousand dollar bonus that you almost assuredly didn't really do anything to deserve. Does $100 really mean that much to you?
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Anon (good use of that feature by the way) is the kind of cheap skate I'm talking about. You remind me of the uncle at the start of Home Alone 2...Anonymous User wrote:Honest question: what reasonable, well-adjusted person would bear ill-will after not getting a Christmas gift from someone they've known ~2 months?sublime wrote:Yea, possibly making your assistant hate you over $100 bucks seems incredibly short sighted.LaLiLuLeLo wrote:Learn to use your secretary. And while I generally get the stub year issue, you net over 8k a month. You can spare $100 for your secretary.NYC2012 wrote:Not to be a dick, and I am all about gift giving - but it is hard to imagine giving my secretary $100 when I started ~one month ago and she hasn't even done a single thing for me yet. I doubt she ever will, I do everything myself?
At my firm, we do give gifts to paras, staff attorneys, janitorial ppl, and others.
First, we do not make $9K/month after taxes. Second, it's entirely possible to be nice/friendly without doling out cash for entirely self-serving reasons. Third, it's a job for both them and us and everyone is compensated for the work they do. The gift-schtick around here is so lame. Partners like cheaping out on support staff and create this culture of "gift ur secretary or else ur cheap lololol." Thanks for buying into the GC-schtick.PorscheFanatic wrote:We make close to $9,000 after taxes with virtually no skillset/value add. Buy your secretary a damn gift, be nice/friendly with them, and get karma on your side. Their work can be miserable at times, just like ours, but for significantly less money. Show them the appreciation even if you barely have a relationship with them, because you'll need it someday.
Also, I'm in a non-NY major market, on the cravath scale, married, and I'm getting just under $9k after taxes and maxing my 401k. Also, see the bolded, I said "close to $9k" not "we make $9k." And even if you're in NY, I'd imagine you still have to be over $8k if you're a Biglaw stub.
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F**kkkk lol. I shit on the guy above for being anon, and then I make that mistake. I'm the anon poster immediately above.
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It’s always nice to be given another errand to run around the holidays, so checks are great.magnum_law wrote:Are checks frowned upon?
Would think it's more presentable than cash and more flexible than giftcards
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Although most people (probably?) use their phones to deposit checks these days, I get the sense that giving a check is the same as giving cash, except less convenient.magnum_law wrote:Are checks frowned upon?
Would think it's more presentable than cash and more flexible than giftcards
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"Terribly sorry to inconvenience you by having to take a pic of this $250 check I'm giving you"cfcm wrote:It’s always nice to be given another errand to run around the holidays, so checks are great.magnum_law wrote:Are checks frowned upon?
Would think it's more presentable than cash and more flexible than giftcards
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In NYC nothing is more presentable than cash.
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Color me one of the weirdos who thinks giving cash is really weird. And I work in NYC biglaw and have lived in NYC my entire life.
At my firm we give paras cash too. Seems even more weird.
Paralegals make like $60k a year with OT in NYC big law. Giving them a $100 xmas bonus just seems ridiculous. It's not even the money. It's just principle. I'd happily spend $200 on a gift. But I can't help but think cash is weird.
I suppose it's less weird for your secretary because he/she doesn't make as much. But still. I think it's very strange to give anyone who works in an office desk job cash as a holiday bonus. Cash is for people who do physical labor and people who rely on tips and bonuses as part of their income.
Like, why shouldn't a senior associate give me (a junior) a cash holiday bonus too? I'd prefer to have cash than some gift too. But if I actually got one I'd not only think the person giving it to me was really weird but I'd actually feel insulted. I imagine I'd feel the same way as an admin or para, even if I'm making less.
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At my firm we give paras cash too. Seems even more weird.
Paralegals make like $60k a year with OT in NYC big law. Giving them a $100 xmas bonus just seems ridiculous. It's not even the money. It's just principle. I'd happily spend $200 on a gift. But I can't help but think cash is weird.
I suppose it's less weird for your secretary because he/she doesn't make as much. But still. I think it's very strange to give anyone who works in an office desk job cash as a holiday bonus. Cash is for people who do physical labor and people who rely on tips and bonuses as part of their income.
Like, why shouldn't a senior associate give me (a junior) a cash holiday bonus too? I'd prefer to have cash than some gift too. But if I actually got one I'd not only think the person giving it to me was really weird but I'd actually feel insulted. I imagine I'd feel the same way as an admin or para, even if I'm making less.
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